Out of control porn habits aren’t something you need to think “I need to quit porn” that’s not the right way to think about it.
The right way is “how to have a better relationship, a better sex life, a better life”
No porn isn’t the issue. The real issue is how you are showing up in your relationships.
How is porn hurting you…
How is porn minimising you…
How is it making you ashamed and socially isolated…
How is porn affecting your relationship and or your relating to women and other people…
How does porn affect the way you show up in the bedroom…
Are you treating your partner like a porn actor and just banging away unconsciously or are you tuning in to what they actually desire and what actually turns them on and not what you think turns them on according to porn or even worse just focusing on what turns you on as seen on porn videos?
Stopping porn is not just kicking an addiction it is cleaning up your mindset and your psyche, it’s changing the energy you carry with you into a room, into a relationship, into a new job.
The solution is simple: You need a vision of life that is more compelling than porn and a vision that frightens you to motivate change. You need both.
What would your life be like in 3 years time if you took care of yourself and loved yourself like your life depends on it?
What would your life be like in 3 years if you took care of your relationship and loved your partner like your life depended on it?
Write for 20 minutes what your life would be like if you got you act together – write about the hell you could be in if you didn’t.
Write down everything that you think could be bad about porn and what it’s doing to you?
Here is one common scary side effect that no one wants to experience or talk about – ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION
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